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Leap of Faith...

Taking a leap of faith… defines a lot of decisions in life doesn’t it? At some point – one needs to give up being guarded, being scared of getting hurt or just plain simple stop ‘floating’ along…

But how does one really do it? Am I the only one who finds these things tough? In a recent personality test I had to undergo .. seeking control of the situations around me was the highest – and no it doesn’t mean I am a control freak – it means I look for structure in things around me. Logic is the mainstay of how I handle various situations, people and relationships... then how the hell does such a personality type take the leap!!???

leap = action
means leaving status quo
means change
means new

faith = belief
means blind choice
means letting go
means just being

action of just being?
leaving status quo and letting go?
new and blind choice?

how?
why?
is it all worth it?
can it ever be worth it?

and yet if it wasnt so - so many millions wouldnt be taking the leap and even inspiring others to do the same... right?

;-)

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