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What Men Want...

NDTV Good Times - Lounge
Host - Rajat Kapoor
Guests - RJ Malaishka, Puneet (model / actor), Deepak (ad guy)
Topic - The done-to-death conversation on Mars and Venus and their expectations from relationships

some gems from the show -
Till a man is single - he has no clue on what he wants...
When he gets married - he has all clues on what he doesnt want!!

Women treat men in their lives as a lifelong science experiment!!

Men want their women to make them feel better about themselves...

One of the best quotes of the show -
Actually what men truly want is for their women to join them at the gaming console and be a part of their world!! ;-)

Loved that bit completely...

The new age woman has been written so much about that its almost nauseating. on the other hand - poor men! so ignored and underestimated... almost written-off actually..

they get stereotyped as the helpless mutts who have been forcibly removed from their mom's aprons and are now aspiring to search out the Mary whose poor lamb they can become... :-) ...however before you bring out the hankerchief to wipe your sympathatic tears pls remember that the expectations men have from women in their relationships hasnt changed!! they show complete solidarity with their dad's on that front..
As one of the guys on the show put it - Like my Mom on the day am tired and like a beer drinking buddy on the day i have time!!

Grrrrrrrr...

Have always said that i have complete sympathy for men of our generation - they've grown us seeing women like their moms and then they get women like us as life partners!! ;-) i mean - its really inhuman isnt it?? how can it be realistically possible to adjust so much in one lifetime!!!?

:-)

Anyways - my take on what men want -
- Space
- Sex
- Someone sensitive to their needs

Come to think of it - life cant really be simpler than that - can it? My only submission to that is - just how comfortable is the new age man with a woman who might want exactly the same things??

Does someone have any opinions on this?

Comments

another brick in the wall said…
makes us men sound like guinea pigs! I agree "space" is required by both partners, but it is also the reason people drift apart..its a double edged sword
July 26, 2008 at 8:36 AM
Ruchika said…
he he!! well yes 'space' is a double-edged sword... but then so is being married itself!! ;-)
July 26, 2008 at 10:27 PM
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